Parent resources
Help for parents of struggling teen boys
Straight, practical guidance for parents of struggling teen boys, from men who have spent decades helping boys become men. Start with the question that is keeping you up at night.

In this collection
6 pieces for parents
- Getting help
Christian Boarding School vs. Military School vs. Boot Camp
Comparing a Christian boarding school, a military school and a boot camp for a struggling teen boy: how each works, who each is for, and what usually lasts.
- Getting help
How Much Does a Christian Boarding School for Troubled Boys Cost?
What Christian boarding schools and programs for struggling boys cost, what drives the price, what to ask, and exactly what Future Men charges, with every term.
- Getting help
My Son Is Out of Control. Where Can I Send Him?
A clear, practical guide for parents of an out-of-control teenage son: what to do this week, when to consider a residential program, the types of programs available, and how to choose a safe one.
- Parenting
Why Won't My Teen Listen to Me Anymore?
Four reasons teenagers stop listening to their parents, and how to rebuild the relationship through honest conversation and consistent, weekly discipleship. From the Future Men team.
- Parenting
Raising a Son Struggling With Attention Issues
Practical, faith-grounded help for parents of a teenage son who struggles with focus and attention: structure at home, working with doctors and schools, and when a structured residential school can help.
- Podcast
The Bold Parenting Podcast
Grounded conversations about family life, parenting and raising the next generation, from the Future Men and Future Families team.
Who writes these
From the men of Future Men.
Future Men is a Christian boarding school for young men ages 14 to 20 near Branson, Missouri, led by founder Aaron Boldman since 2002. Future Men does three things every week: Christian discipleship with men who live on campus, accredited academics with an individual plan and trade apprenticeships with local businesses. Boys become men here as they take responsibility for their actions and ownership over their lives.
These articles are general guidance for parents, not medical or clinical advice. If you are wondering whether Future Men is right for your son, start with our honest fit guide or see how admissions works.